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Top 10 Reasons I Married a Foreigner

 

(10) That glorious accent!  Who knew an R could be rolled that way!


(9) Foreigners are oh-so-sophisticated.  Whether they grow up on a farm, in the city, poor or rich, they just have an air of sophistication about them.


(8) He thinks I am fascinating.  When we met, he didn’t realize how completely common I am in my home country… too late now!


(7) I have an open-ended excuse to travel.  Ok, sometimes this can be completely annoying since every vacation abroad is filled with visiting his family but hey, at least I have a reason to board the plane and it is great not to have to cook and clean for a month.


(6) Our children will speak another language fluently and we won’t even have to pay an expensive tutor.


(5) He automatically charms friends and family.  Mom needed a little time to get used to him and the whole idea, but she’s coming around.


(4) European chocolate and sweets.  What better excuse to share in those yummy things he can’t live without?


(3) I love a challenge.  Who would want to have a simple, normal, easy relationship?  Especially after we started having children, things got really challenging (and it wasn’t the decision of whether to use cloth or disposable - that decision was the easiest: cloth!).


(2) Two weddings!  Ok, so my mother is still upset that we didn’t have an American wedding but we really did want to have one, honestly, I swear!


(1) True Love!  It just couldn’t be any other way!  Breaking up in Versaille for those 10 minutes was excruciating! There was no way I could let him go and then years later wonder, “What if?” 

 

© Corey Heller, 2006

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April Features & Essays

Culture Clash
In the world of parenting, who decides who’s right and wrong? How does culture dictate U.S. conventional wisdom?

I Before Me
One father's heart-warming essay about his young son and language.

What to Do When He Won’t Speak the Language
A son, a diagnosis of SPD and giving the language another try.

Where My Home Is
An essay on finding home in more than one culture and language.

Maths - Not My Favourite Subject
Embracing our complexities and refusing to limit ourselves to the definitions others place on us.

Ethnopediatrics: Emerging field takes comparative look at parenting practices around the world
Not sure what Ehthnopediatrics is? As a bicultural family, you'll probably be surprised at how much you already know about it!

The Politics of Bilingualism
Do you have the right to speak your language in a public institution? Maybe not.


BBFN Columnists

The Single Language Spouse
Luckily Winnie the Pooh is bilingual too! Colleen shares with us her contemplations about media in the Single Language Spouse household.

Eurapsody
Clo's Two Timing Nanny brings language number four into the Eurapsody household.

One Family One Language
The One Family One Language household searches for ways to add more community language into their home.

Between Grandparent and Grandchild
Sharon shares her contemplations on the labels "bilingual" and "bicultural".

Multicultural Melange
Anyone out there dealing with the "Diga-diga Syndrome"? Alice shares her thoughts on speech development.


Stay Informed

RESEARCH
I Came Long Time Ago: Language Attrition in Long-Time Bilinguals

Two researchers from the University of Toronto share their current research findings with BBFN! What an honor!

TIPS & ADVICE
3 Steps Parents Can Take to Support Elementary Language Education in Their Communities

Is there anything a parent can do to support early childhood language education in their communities? Yes!

TIPS & ADVICE
Parents showing preferential treatment toword common-race children - what to do?

Harriet answers more questions from you - from race to extended family! Don't miss her next presentation on May 19th!

AGES & STAGES
"Parentese", Listening, Writing, Discussion

Read this month's information and tips on understanding and engaging our bilingual/bicultural children each step of the way.

HUMOR & FUN
Top 10 Reasons I Married a Foreigner

A humorous look at some reasons why we decide to pursue love across the oceans.

LOOK WHO'S TALKING
May Lecture and Seminar

Check out May Calendar of Events for information and to register for our May Events!

LOOK WHO'S TALKING
Meet Grace M. Libardo Alvarez

Grace, a Bilingual Speech-Language Pathologist, has come on board with BBFN to provide expert advice, support and information for parents raising multilingual children!


Spotlights & Info

MARKETPLACE SPOTLIGHT
Becky's Favorites

Each month Becky shares her best kept secrets with us! Don't miss her April recommendations!

BOOK REVIEW SPOTLIGHT
The Bilingual Family - A Handbook for Parents, by Edith Harding and Philip Riley

Alice's review of this month's book choice: a book written to support families raising bilingual children.

NEWS SPOTLIGHT
News Around the World

See what is going on around the world with respect to language, culture and identity.

WEBSITE SPOTLIGHT
Voices

A BBC supported site with a fabulous compilation of information, discussion, audio clips and more - all about language, dialect and cultures.


WEBSITE SPOTLIGHT
Interview with Dr. Kwame Anthony Appiah

Dr. Kwame Anthony Appiah is the author of the acclaimed book, "Cosmopolitanism: Ethics in a World of Strangers". How can we better live in a world of blending cultures and customs while still retaining our unique identities? Read the transcript of an interview of Appiah with Tavis Smiley on PBS.


Mailbag

APRIL INQUIRY
Fillipa in Australia

Do you have suggestions or advice for Fillipa's question?

FEEDBACK FROM READERS
Aniko in the US

Thoughts on Hungarian and Finnish
Kristie in Brittany
Comments about the BBFN Newsletter and the BBFN "Oh No.." article
Hanna in the UK
Response to the BBFN Newsletter and information about a Polish online forum
Tommi from MM
Feedback from the Multilingual Matters publishing house in UK

 

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